Tuesday, January 25, 2011

Something Borrowed, Something Saved

I know you probably already know this: weddings are expensive! There are so many details and nearly all of them cost money. The dress, the venue, the flowers, the pictures, the music, the lighting, the food - it can all add up to thousands of dollars. After the wedding, the money is gone but hopefully the memories carry on for a lifetime. I still look back on my wedding day with great affection. Of course, I wasn't the one footing the bill!

Saving money is always nice. It makes us feel good when we know we got a great deal. We already have an idea of where to spend the money we are saving! Maybe it's a trip to Hawaii or a down payment on a first home. Maybe it's a car or concert tickets.

But no one wants their wedding day to appear thrifty. So how do you plan a wedding and cut costs without cheapening the biggest day of your life thus far? Here are 3 rules that can help you save a lot of cash:

Rule #1 - Write down your ideas. Come up with your theme and imagine the day in your mind. It's not hard especially for the bride who has been day dreaming her whole life about getting married! What are your colors for your decor? What kind of music do you think best establishes the mood? What types of foods do your family and friends like? After writing down your thoughts, don't stray from them. Instead, find ways to make it happen. A little imagination goes a long way!

Rule #2 - Spend money in the right places. Know your capabilities and leave the rest to professionals. Make sure you get the pros for the projects you can't accomplish on your own. Sometimes you have to spend money for peace of mind and to free up time for your other tasks. Do you really think you can prepare the meal for 250 guests and create the bouquets for your bridesmaids the day before your wedding?

Friends can really come in handy too. If you have talented friends or family members, use them! Okay, that sounds bad. But they'll want you to return the favor on their big day! Be careful though to insure that your friends can deliver a quality product. Yes, Uncle Bob was a great DJ in the 70's but will he embarrass you by making it cheesy? If you want dancing, is your IPOD capable of reading the crowd and going with the flow? Is your little brother's band varied enough to entertain all of your guests?

There are many other do it yourself ways to save money. Choose a cheaper (or even used) dress. Rent the tuxedos. Use your dad's car as the going away vehicle. Have Aunt Mabel bake the cake. Elope!

Rule #3 - Pick your date wisely. The most expensive days for a wedding are holidays. If you have to have your wedding on New Year's Eve or the 4th of July, be prepared to pay for it! For non-holidays, the most costly days are Saturdays. The demand is just too high in most cases to get a price break on a Saturday. However, sometimes procrastination can save you big time! If your wedding is in the very near future (and the vendor is available) you can get a good deal. All vendors would rather be working and making money than not. Most businesses offer discounts for Fridays, Sundays, and especially weekdays. Don't be afraid to ask.

Your wedding can be the greatest day of your life but it doesn't have to be the most expensive. Follow these money saving ideas so you can spend it on each other and live happily ever after!


Kris Bayne
Band Of Gold - Band Leader
Orpheus and Aphrodite Music and Photography - Owner/DJ

Tuesday, January 11, 2011

Pop/Rock Artists That Define Your Generation


Every generation has songs that take them back in an instant with even stronger emotion than a movie an conjure. We have compiled a list of 175 influential artists to be added to our repertoire. WE NEED YOUR HELP! Have we missed anything? What artists/songs have a special place in your heart? Let us know and we might add it to our play list!

Here's our list:
AC/DC
Aerosmith
Alice In Chains
Allman Brothers Band
The Animals
Aretha Franklin
The B-52's
The Beach Boys
The Beatles
The Bee Gees
Bill Haley and The Comets
Billy Idol
Billy Joel
The Black Crowes
Black Eyed Peas
Blondie
Bo Diddley
Bob Dylan
Bob Marley
Bob Seger
Bon Jovi
Britney Spears
Bruce Springsteen
Bryan Adams
The Byrds
Buddy Holly
Carl Perkins
Carole King
The Carpenters
The Cars
The Coasters
Creedence Clearwater Revival
Cheap Trick
Chicago
The Chiffons
Chubby Checker
Chuck Berry
Cindi Lauper
The Clash
The Coasters
Coldplay
The Commodores
Crosby, Stills, and Nash
The Crystals
Daryl Hall and John Oats
Dave Matthews Band
David Bowie
Def Leppard
Doc Watson
Doobie Brothers
The Doors
The Drifters
Duran Duran
The Eagles
Earth, Wind and Fire
Eddie Cochran
Elton John
Elvis Presley
Eric Clapton
Everly Borthers
Fats Domino
The Flamingos
Fleetwood Mac
The Four Tops
Frankie Valli and The Four Seasons
Gene Vincent
Genesis
Gladys Knight and The Pips
The Grateful Dead
Green Day
The Guess Who
Guns N Roses
Howlin' Wolf
Huey Lewis
INXS
Jackson 5
James Brown
James Taylor
Janis Joplin
Jason Mraz
Jelly Roll Morton
Jefferson Airplane
Jerry Lee Lewis
Jim Croce
Jimi Hendrix
Joan Jett and The Blackhearts
Joe Cocker
John Mayer
Johnny Cash
Journey
KC and The Sunshine Band
Kenny Loggins
The Kingsmen
The Kinks
Kiss
Kool and The Gang
Led Zeppelin
Lenny Kravitz
Lesley Gore
Lionel Richie
Little Eva
Little Richard
Lynard Skynard
Madonna
The Mamas and The Papas
Marvin Gaye
Martha and The Vandelles
Metallica
Michael Jackson
The Monkees
Motley Crue
Muddy Waters
Neil Diamond
Neil Young
Nirvana
Norman Greenbaum
Otis Redding
Patsy Cline
Paul Simon
Pearl Jam
Percy Sledge
Peter Gabriel
Phil Collins
Pink Floyd
The Platters
Poison
The Police
Prince
Queen
R.E.M.
The Ramones
Ray Charles
Red Hot Chili Peppers
Ritchie Valenz
Rick James
Rick Springfield
The Righteous Brothers
Robert Palmer
Rod Stewart
The Rolling Stones
Roy Orbison
Rush
The Safaris
Sam Cooke
Sam The Sham and the Pharaohs
Santana
Sex Pistols
Simon and Garfunkel
Simple Minds
Sister Sledge
Sly and The Family Stone
Smashing Pumpkins
Smokey Robinson
Sonny and Cher
Steppenwolf
Steve Miller Band
Stevie Wonder
Stray Cats
Styx
The Supremes
Talking Heads
The Temptations
Tears For Fears
Three Dog Night
The Throggs
Tina Turner
Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers
Tommy James and The Shondells
Twisted Sister
U2
Van Halen
Van Morrison
The Violent Femmes
The Who
ZZ Top

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Kris Bayne
Band Of Gold - Band Leader
Orpheus and Aphrodite Music and Photography - Owner/DJ

Wednesday, January 5, 2011

Preferred Vendor Lists - Believe it, or not?

It is widely believed that the greatest form of advertising is word of mouth. When someone you trust informs you of a product or service, you are likely to choose it without hesitation. For this reason, when we first formed our music and photography business in 1999, we wanted to reach out to venue owners specifically to get on preferred vendor referral lists.

When visiting a wedding venue, you will probably receive a list of trusted vendors they have worked with in the past. Venues like to work with quality professionals who do a great job. It makes their job easier and it reflects very well on their business. This is why preferred vendor lists are such a integral part of the wedding business.

Lately, some wedding sites have been approaching their vendor referrals the wrong way in my opinion. Instead of placing a vendors name on the list because they do great work, they are actually charging their wedding professionals fees to appear on the list. In a sense, it is becoming a "pay to play" industry and if you don't pay them as high as 20% of your earnings per wedding, you don't work. That's right - 20%!

When we began, we were included on these lists as a trusted company - a company that worked very hard to deliver the best quality photographs and live music and DJ services to our clients. We got to know people and made many friendships with other professionals and clients. Now, at least to some venue operators, that doesn't seem to count. All that matters is whether of not they've made a cut of your service and your labor.

When visiting a venue, ask them how they assembled their preferred vendor list. Do they REALLY know the people they say they do? Have they seen their work? Would they choose them for their own wedding? Or have the vendors simply paid them to be there? It's your event and you have the right to know that you are getting the highest quality for the money. Let them know that you only want the best!

Kris Bayne
Band Of Gold - Band Leader
Orpheus and Aphrodite Music and Photography - Owner/DJ

Monday, January 3, 2011

Questions You Should Ask Before Hiring A Band

When planning a wedding or other special event, there are TONS of details and all of them are important. The venue, catering, flowers and decor, photography, music. All of these have an important role in making your event a success. The following are questions you should ask before hiring your entertainment. These questions will help you determine if you are hiring a professional act or not.


Is the band independent or is it represented by an agency?

It's okay if the band is independent but there is a lot more security if the band is with an agency. Agencies are ultimately responsible for the band. If a band were to cancel, chances are a good agency can find a suitable replacement quickly. They are your contact should anything go wrong. If the band is independent, members of the band may not be responsible for mishaps.

Do I have to sign a contract?

Contracts protect not only the band or agency they protect you as well. A contract should include the engagement date, times and location; compensation; overtime policy; cancellation policy; client provisions; any additional fees associated with booking the band; and a refund or replacement clause should there be an unforeseeable circumstance and the band is unable to perform. Read your contract carefully to make sure you understand it. If you have questions, ASK! Always make sure everything is clear before signing the contract.

Are they licensed and insured for property and personal damages?

Professionals are licensed and insured. The pros account for anything that might happen. Music equipment can be very heavy and awkward. If a piece of band gear hits a wall, or even worse, a person, the band should be responsible. If the band isn't insured or isn't part of an agency that is insured, guess who is responsible? You are!

How many members are in the band?

Are the musicians full time professionals?

Professionals take their music very seriously. It is not only a passion, it's the way they provide for themselves and their families. Hobbyists "play" music. Professionals "perform" music. There is a big difference in attitude and quality.

What instruments do you offer?

Make sure the band is equipped to perform the music you want. A string quartet may not be able to perform a funk song and a rock band may not be able to perform big band jazz music. Make sure the band can perform the arrangements you want for your event.

Can you perform wedding ceremony music?

Some bands offer discounts for ceremony music if you have hired them for the reception and the locations are within close proximity to each other. Many musicians play multiple instruments so you can choose your own instrumentation.

Do you carry back up equipment?

ALL of your vendors need to have adequate back up equipment. Your event only happens once and there are no redo's. There is no room for error. Your band needs to reassure you that nothing will render your event musicless! The band needs professional quality instruments, amps and speakers and their back up equipment should be of the same quality.

How many events have you performed?

You want to make sure that your band is experienced. Experienced bands have better communication and a better stage presence. But not all experience is the same. Some bands are wedding experts. Other bands play mostly clubs. Make sure that your band is experienced with your type of event.

Can I see a song list?

Look at the list to see who the band's audience has been in the past. Is the list varied? Will all of your guests hear music they know? Does the band perform many genres of music for people of all ages?

Do you play special requests or learn songs that are not on the list?

A band should be willing to learn your most special songs. A wedding band should learn your 1st dance and parents' dances and anything else that is really important to you. Remember, it's YOUR day! Be practical though. It can be overwhelming for a band to get lots of requests with short notice. You want the band to perform the songs well so give them time to rehearse!

How many breaks do you take? How long are your sets?

Bands should perform at least 45 minutes/hour. There should be no more than 1 fifteen minute break per hour.

Do you offer music during the band breaks?

Some bands offer to DJ or play CDs for you and they will include this for no extra charge. That way, the fun doesn't have to stop when the band breaks!

Do you provide an emcee for making announcements?

Emcees can make or break a party. A good emcee can command the attention of the audience and help guide the event with or without a coordinator.

Do you work well with coordinators? Can you work without a coordinator?

Experienced event bands can work with or without coordinators. It only takes a good timeline and an experienced band leader to make the event function smoothly.

Are there any other expenses such as travel or vendor meals for the musicians?

Most bands require a meal if the event is 4 or more hours long. You don't have to go out of your way to provide elaborate meals and you don't have to include them with your expensive head count. Boxed lunches with sandwiches and chips will do just fine.

What will you be wearing?

Make sure the band is dressed appropriately for your event. You don't want baggy jeans or ripped t-shirts at your wedding. Well, maybe you do but chances are, you don't!

How interactive are you with guests?

If you want a band that talks with the guests or leads group dances, tell them. Good event performers will do whatever it takes to make the party fun for everyone. Let them know if you want a band to just play music or if you want them to lead the Hokey Pokey - or anywhere in between!

Do you offer lighting for the band and dance floor?

Lighting changes everything. Good lighting can make your party feel like a night club and can make your guests lose their inhibitions. Guests feel more relaxed when there is good lighting and that allows them to dance the night away without the feeling they're being looked at!

How much space do you need?

Make sure there is enough space to accommodate the band members and their equipment. Is the area in the corner really big enough for that 10 piece band you just booked?

What are your power requirements?

Music and lighting equipment need lots of power. Make sure the band's area is adequately powered to avoid accidental fuse breaker issues!

How long does it take you to set up and break down?

All that equipment takes time to set up. Many pieces of music and lighting equipment have a lot of various cables that must be plugged in a particular order to operate. Setting up a band takes time. Bands also need time to perform a sound check before the 1st guest arrives. Make sure the venue will be open for the band at least 2 and 1/2 hours before the first guests are to arrive.

How much is your deposit?

For your protection, never pay more than 50% for your deposit. Non-professional bands sometimes need an incentive to actually show up on the day of your event! Always hold onto the balance until you are satisfied that the band is doing their job!

Do you have references or published reviews?

Always get a list of references and contact at least 3 of them. Find out if the band was on time.Were they courteous? Were they enjoyable to watch? Was the music everything you wanted it to be? Did they represent you well? Also, research the band online. You'd be surprised about what you'll find if you Google the band or company name. And read all the reviews you can find. Your entertainment is important enough to investigate!

With a little know how and careful planning, your event will be a success and you'll have the time of your life! Make sure that you know the professional you are hiring and that you trust them. This will help you relax and enjoy the planning process. 

Kris Bayne
Band of Gold - Band Leader
http://atlantabandofgold.com
Orpheus and Aphrodite Music and Photography - Owner and DJ

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